The Story
So you’ve gotten all dressed up, the fragrance you’ve chosen smells heavenly on you, and you are looking fabulous even if you have to say so yourself. You can feel a certain playfulness in the air. You have listened to your favorite playlist on Spotify as you drove to the event. You have chosen to go this one alone just for research purposes. You pull up to the valet parking, smoothly exit your vehicle and hand the keys to the valet driver with a slight smile and a blushing wink. As you walk away to enter the building, you can feel the eyes of the valet driver watching you. You smile within yourself and think ” That was fun! I should do that more often”….Yes, you should…
Here Are 5 Simple Fun and Powerful Flirting Techniques
Set The Mood…
Being purposeful about being flirty is a key piece. Don’t dread it. Enjoy it! Get that internal smile blazing bright! Wear the outfits that make you feel most sexy, confident, and powerful.
Everybody doesn’t have to go all the time…
You can go out for a happy hour with friends, after all, that is what most of us do…right? But there are times when we should just brave the unknown and go out with ourselves. I know you are thinking “I can’t do that!”. Yes, you can. When we are out with the girls it’s true that’s our cheering squad but it also keeps us a little closed. We rarely leave the group, flirt, or socialize with anyone else. Ok, maybe I’m the only guilty one. You know that gentleman was looking at you and because he didn’t come over to the cheerleader squad you let a possible “hello” slip right through your fingers…never to be seen again.
Here’s a way to step away from the pack. Next time smile, get that eye contact going, and then excuse yourself from the glorious table of friends. Make a beeline to be in his vicinity. You don’t have to chase just make yourself accessible by ordering a drink if at a restaurant or bar. Don’t forget a bathroom break to power your nose always works.
Be Live and In-Person…
Are you on your smartphone all the time? It’s a wonder we don’t all have hunchbacks. Lift up your head people and smile, engage in flirty conversation, and say hello. Get in the practice of being present. If someone was trying to get your attention would they be able to? Places to practice are your local Starbucks, Grocery Store, Gas Station, Restaurants, and practically anywhere where humans live and breathe.
What a Powerful thing…
I’ve said it before and I will say it again… smile. It’s one of the easiest ways to flirt. It’s important and once you are in the habit it starts to feel really good. It brings a lightness about yourself and you can feel it. Other people will too and it will draw them to you. It’s just a little effort that’s priceless and goes a long way.
Say Hello…
Don’t wait for the other person to go first, flash those pearly whites, and say hello. Flirting doesn’t have to end in numbers being exchanged all the time. It can be a wonderful introduction to being more open and friendly. Being open will draw and attract other open individuals. Imagine that!
Remember practice makes perfect. Get out there and practice these 5 tips with confidence and if you don’t have confidence, do it anyway. Tell a friend so you have some accountability and get out there and start flirting! You can also join our Facebook Group, place your comments in this blog post thread, and tell us what you did and how it went.
Tell me what you think or ideas you have about flirting. Are you comfortable or a little shy? Leave a comment below. Talk to you soon
